BMFC History

Maybe this is where some of you expect me to tell you some of my inner most secrets, so that who ever reads this gets to know a little piece of me …

Well sorry to disappoint you, but you wont get any beans spilt here – you will have to get to one of our parties to find out that kind of stuff!
 
For those of you who don’t already know it, the Blackmans Fanclub (BMFC) was founded by me (Helen) and my then boyfriend, Tony
 
Back in the day, Swingers Clubs were stricty MEMBERS ONLY establishments and membership was almost impossible to obtain (membership was only offered to Business Owners or by Referral from an existing member)
 
Before the internet became saturated with swingers websites, Swingers Clubs were deemed to be 'underground' and were very difficult to access
 
It was also  known fact that the members of those clubs were predominantly WHITE, MIDDLE AGED and MIDDLE CLASS
 
So basically I was fed up of visiting Swigers Clubs to realise that ONCE AGAIN my boyfriend was the ONLY Black Guy there!! 
 
After months of being bored evertime we went out I soon realised that if i could break down the barriers and scourse a venue then I could tap into our existing circle of friends and introduce them into the Swinging Scene and also use my music knowledge to create the right type of atmosphere to help guests relax but feel sexy too!
 
Soon the BMFC was born and held our FIRST party in E17. The venue that we used back then was ideal for us in the early days, but as word spread, the numbers increased and we outgrew the club. Not long after this, Tony slowly got bored with organising the events (even though he wanted to reap the rewards) and we split up

Sourcing the ideal venue is always challenging. It has to be in the right location, provide our guests with the facilities, cleanliness and space that you all deserve. I try where ever possible to have some consistency with our venues, but I also think that it’s a great opportunity to introduce our friends to “new” clubs, encouraging you to venture out of your comfort zone and of course increase your network of friends.

Do not assume you know the venue of a BMFC party as these change from time to time. If you aree not signed up to our emailing list to receive party promotional emails, please check out our calendar of events for specific events and venue details.

So in a nut-shell, the venues may change, the facilities too, but one thing that NEVER changes is the dedication that I and the BMFC Team give when organising and hosting these parties.

 

So what is the Blackmans Fanclub I hear you all cry

Our parties do what it says on the tin. They are parties, specifically organised for females and couples who appreciate the extras that Blackguys bring, and of course for the Blackguys who enjoy being appreciated.

In simple terms, that means that single females of any race, culture, religion are welcome at our parties.

Our guests can be any race, colour or creed but, as you might imagine, the females that attend our parties  are attracted to Black Guys and the male half of the couple fully accepts the fact that his missus may want to play with a Black guy at the party

Single Guys would thus preferably be Black but, nobody is refused entry to a BMFC party based on the colour of their skin

We find that 70% of the ladies who attend our parties are Bi, but that doesn't mean they will pounce on every lady who attends!

The etiquette for Swinging applies, regardless of sexuality ... no means no! ...

We pride ourselves on the reputation we have for being successful at what we do!

Our guests know that when they attend a BMFC Party, not only will they hear the best smooth R&B and sexy Reggae tunes, but they will also be guaranteed a great relaxed atmosphere!

Our parties are a place to go to unwind, dance, meet old friends and of course to increase your network of friends by meeting new people

Even though lots of our guests have plenty of intimate fun, you will find that there is absolutely no pressure placed on anyone to play!

 

How Times have Changed .... 

Swinging - over the years - has changed so much and it is only right that we change too 

These days people are far more in touch with their sexuality and their sexual preferences

For years, we have encouraged our female members to be SEXUALLY LIBERATED - to make their own decisions, to do as THEY please, to ENJOY sex, to have FUN 

As long as everyone is CONSENSUAL then this is a FANTASTIC lifestyle choice

Recently we have seen an increase in the number of TVs interested in attending our paries - and an increase in the number of guys AND ladies attracted to them too!!

I have and ALWAYS will fight to ensure that the Swinging Scene attracts Black People and now i find that i am now fighting to ensure that the Swinging Scene welcomes TVs too 

EVERYONE regardless of skin colour, sexuality or gender has a right to have fun in a non threatening, safe and clean environment and while i have a breath in my body i will CONTINUALLY fight for everyone to have that right!! 

If EVERYONE abides by the BASIC BMFC rules, then EVERONE will have agreat night 

1) Consensual RESPECT

2) Consensual ATTRACTION 

3) Consensual SEX 

                                                                   x Be safe, Be respectful Have FUN x